Afka Riyada iyo Dumarka

Dumarka iyo afka jirka, codka iyo guud ahaan warka aan afka laga sheegin oy rayadu ku hadasho wuxuu u baahanyahay fasiraad, laakiin waxba ma qariyaan, waxna ma sheegaan.

Dadka kale waxaan ku samaynayno inta badan ma ogin, laakiin waxaan ognahay,
mararka qaarkood waxa dadka kale nagu sameeyeen, tanaa laga yaabaa inaan ka duulno. Qof kalena tanaa laga yabaa inuu ka duulo.

Dareemayaasha waxay ku shaqeeyaan dareenka, fikirayaashana fikirka. Labadaan inta badan waa saan iyo saan ee ma aha saas iyo saas. Qofka hadduu dareeme yahay, dareenka madkuu fiicanyahay inuu ku shaqeeyo waaye, markuu fiicnayna inuu baaro.

Adiga shaqadaada ma aha dad kale, ee waa naftaada. Maalin maalmaha ka mid ah anigoo iswaardiyaynaaya aan waxaan arkay anoo qof caynaya. Waagii hore ma ogayn, dadaan iska nici jiray, hadda ma sameeyo. Dadka kale waxba igama galin.

Siyaasada riyada. Riyada inta lagu jiro waa la isku waxyoodaa.



Non-verbal language of women and dreams neither tell nor hide, but they require interpretations.

I understand stuff when I verbalize, I practice verbalization, especially in the form of paraphrasing. What if someone who understands by paraphrasing remains silent?

Some people are unaware what they are non-verbally saying to others. Thus, they are surprised when others say something in return. Such people ought to remain indifferent, unless there is mutual aspirations for something.

Daily Reports

I will carry out simple experimentation today; how long can I remain focused and get work done without doing something I will not choose to do when I am In my right mind, like surfing the net for no reasons or reading the news feeds of Facebook friends or otherwise just day dreaming.

When I am no longer able to focus I will rest or meditate until I am able to focus again and get work done.

The fruits of such lifestyle is immense; first , my healthy and self-confidence tend to improve and I am able to act even more efficiently, because I am able to see things in fresh eye.

I expect my rests and meditation may be long because I have slept like 4.5 hours even though I managed to sleep in noisy place like another hour, making my total hours less than minimum required.
Without further ado, let me get to work.


I begin.
O830-0900
I am glad to report that I have focused this period and did not distract myself on nonsense. I had enjoyed doing so. It is as if something is going on for me, bright future. I am working on an article. First thirty minutes have gone. I shall report on the next 30 minutes.

0900-0930
Focused again, still working on the article; when you do this in public places, womb generally say you are having a fun, and suggest their desire to share it; you can easily get dates In this way after you have done your work.

0930-1000
I wish I would have done more mind mapping. I will do that to finish this article in less time and yet produce a great article

I did mind map, but needed to do research, and spent few seconds on surfing the net for no legitimate reason.
Otherwise, I am doing fine.

1000-1030
Focuses but felt tired, in need of fifteen minutes break and then I shall get back to work.

1030-11
Break and meditation to refresh.
11-1130
Focusing in this period faced tough resistance, but I have managed to overcome it, during the period when I was not able to to do so due to general fatigue, my self-confidence dipped, and restlessness replacing stabilityI enjoyed. I recovered, proving once again focusing and getting work done is better than not.

1130-1200
Focused well. Reminded of warming up to get more work done, and do this on Dailly basis.
1200-1230
Focused and worked in the article and almost finished.
1230-1300
Do some administrative work.
I did not do some administrative work, but did some other project, compiling data about the political situation of Somalia ; I shall do this and hopefully finish in the next 30 minutes or get close.

1300-1330
Surveyed news in Somalia but did not record data by data, making me feel as if i did nothing. I will take 30 minutes break and shall be back.

1330-1400
Used this period to so some admins tariff work instead of a break and remained idle, doing noting productive;
1400-1430
Lunch search
Found Lunch
1430-1500
Did some work collecting and analyzing and I will do more of it. This time, I shall state the degree of focus on the task, from 10 to one.
1500-1530
Did some administrative work;
Continue tabulating data
1530-1600
Tabulated data
1600-1630
Administrative work
1630-1700
Feeling the weight of not sleeping. Enough hours.
More rest and meditation
1700-1800
This period, I spent on talking people impromptu, basically did not do much
1800-1830
I shall meditate this period.

I sometime think that I have slept much last night, so don't bother working on creative work; I can still focus on editing ok materials; that is what I shall do.

Time to excercise for 30 minutes and do some editing work.
1830-1920
This period I have met a stranger and talked and talked and talked; this was not planned, and at some point, I did not want to continue, but then it is gone now. Time to cry, I fact no need to to do so. All I need to do is learn to plan ahead and then implement it; no having a plan is the reason why I am swayed so easily.

1920-2000
Sort of things that I wish to have done is to have a goal that at once will allow me to make a living and tap my talent. I think that will inevitably happen if I write a book about meditation, chi Ching, relationships, talent identification and use; I have already started that before and then stopped it; the point is to come up with a way to do it in daily basis until it becomes a habit, then books will be created and edited and published and sold.

Dreams and Efficiency

Dreams use the most efficient words and images to portray a meaning. The dream process therefore teaches efficiency, using minimum resources to produce maximum results.

Talking about what is appropriate to the moment and not talking aboutwhat is not.

Speaking about what comes up, impulses, in the form of emotions and thoughts, allows you to employ powerful forces that wish to be.

Doing so, is like sailing with wind; it drives your boat. Not doing so, is like going against the wind.

A good example is when you are talking to an attractive woman, it applies to money making and politics too, talk about what is appropriate to the moment; generally speaking, even though both of you know that which is appropriate to the moment, it is bitter to say or do, initially, but not afterwards. Similarly, not to say or do what is relevant, from your vantage point of view, initially it is easy, but not afterwards.

Experts say no one can miss the truth, that is what needs to be said or done given prevailing conditions and aspirations.

It is alway on: opportunities are there all the time to make more money or if you have not met yet, meet a beautiful woman, or a man if you are woman.

The unconscious is always on, interacting with people and objects all the time, either positively or negatively, that is why it is your responsibility to remind mindful all the time and steer yourself towards making more money, for instance, to gain financial freedom.

Noting down  (e.g mind-mapping) or generally becoming aware of what is going on is sufficient solution to prevailing challenges. Similarly, becoming aware allows one to cease opportunities also.

What comes up, it appears, is, generally speaking, beyond our control because it is of unconscious nature. It just comes up, and your job, It appears, is to let it be. This, I think, is the most addictive thing to do, more additive, I suppose, than drugs.

Try it with beautiful woman, you will see what I mean.

Dual tasking allows me to get work done in an alternative fashion, two work at a time. Such work generally has freshness into it and quality. The opposite is monotony. I enjoy working in this fashion. Precisely for this reason, I can get a lot of work done, that boosts my self-confidence a bit, but I have not been able to do it, as much I would like to do, due to distractions. Now, I can see how I can make plenty of money: teaching how to do this to myself and to others.

This makes me feel as if I am professional and successful, indeed I am because I am working intelligently and productively.

One way to dual task is to schedule completion of small task, that will take no more than minutes, preferably less than 10 minutes, and if you don't do it, because of preventable distractions, pay fine, few dollars.

In the process if you are writing a book, for instance ,an idea will come to you, note it down. After finishing this task, go to the previous one and start again, add infinitum.

It is preferable one to be  an administrative or generally non-creative type and the other be more of creative type, filling forms and writing are examples of dual tasking.

Some people are inclined to postpone decisions; perceivers, is their name, in the parlance of Myers Briggs personality type indicator, but decisions are necessary for their success, so that their success too is postponed.

Such people ought to practice the art of making decisions in short periods of time, such as 15 minutes or so, to hasten their success.

Behaving Efficiently

I earlier stated every situation presents what needs to be done, directly or indirectly; for instance, women generally hint what you ought to do next and you do the same; doing only that suffices; anything else is a liability. The same applies to business conversation, In fact to every area of life.

Right away as anti- Procrastination Principle

Doing things right away, when you know it ought be done, defeats procrastination and its general implication of not doing what you ought to have done, given ample time and resources to do so.

Getting Work Done

The process is sequential, that of finding what you want to accomplish and finding a way to accomplish that thing.

Going along the Wind

At any moment there is something that present itself to be completed. Someone said life is like set of television, all you need to do is there, given a goal, I add.

It is as if this is your brain telling you what to do given your stated aspirations, money for instance. All you have to do, if you have time, think about it in rational manner and then perform it .

For instance sometimes you show no inclination to exercise, it is excruciating, this is you mind telling you, it seems, it is not proper to exercise at this time, it it proper, however, to rest.

Other times, you show inclinations to exercise, but you might not wish to do so.

This is the time to exert yourself to exercise.

Now, suppose you have assumed you found a what will give you $50 today out of doing sort of things you desire to do the most. The brain would immediately give you an answer, it may not be the one that you are ready for it, but it may be the one that you are more likely to make money out of it. So, go ahead and do it.

Tips for Effectiveness in whatever you Do

Factors that have allowed me to earn a living from suitable work and more.

Setting up a deadline to get work done and if you don't, then lose some money; sustain this process or do no work.

Carry some cash and a can to place them.

The nature of obstacles people face as they try to earn a living from suitable work are essentially the same, but they tend to be appear fresh every time they appear; for instance, initially it would frighten you as to think it is not doable; it is as if the work would say, do you want to make a living out of this? Think again. So, find a plan and then practice the plan until it becomes second a nature so that you will routinely overcome these obstacles.

Daily two sentences before 2 p.m., EST, In Somali and in English, about how I have helped others identify what they are most suited to do to earn a living and how I did the same in relation to finding a suitable partner and blooming together for extended period of time, I shall supply weekdays or else I shall give $50 to whoever asks for it. I shall add this paragraph to every post.

I did this by composing short works at a time based on studies, research and practice.

Strict adherence to your own rules, or the rules you recognize their importance shall allow you to reach your goals, not doing shall ensure your failure.

Somali
Caqabadaha insaaniyada la soo gudboonaada markay bursanaayaan saaxiibad, ama saaxiib, lacag ama siyaaso, iwm, waa isla kuwii, inta badan, laakiin mar walba waxaad u malaysaa inay cusub yihiin, aad horay u arag. Marka waa inaad qorshe diyaar kuu yeehay si fiican loogu jimicsaday, bacdina ku dhaqaaq, adoo samaynaaya, ama lacag iska bixinaaya. Celcelinta bacdi marka dambe waxay abuurtaa dhaqan.

Every Moment is New Era

Great every moment as new one, fresh moment.

Overcome distractions by setting up a deadline and failing to meet, pay a cost, succeeding, however, reward yourself. Proceed in this fashion.

Three Seconds Rule

I have noted, today, a reluctance to do what was proper to the occasion several times, and general tendency to do what is not proper to the occasion.

The obvious solution is just do it, as the saying goes, done.

Primary work for every one, I suppose, performance of what is proper to that occasion, each to his or her best knowledge, and non-performance of what is not.

We know things better after they happen, then before they happen. This is what is known as hindsight.

Plan.

It is not desirable to be plan, but plan it anyway, and implement it, even if you don't like it, you will love it. You are racing against time, time is always moving, so is everything.

Care for One's Family is the Cause of Human Development

One's love for his or her family or relatives is primary engine driver for human development.

It is desire to help them out that inclines one to ensure great hardships. I think they are great source of motivation to focus earning enough money help them out.

Perhaps, we ought to not be too sentimental and incline them to help themselves out.

It is a challenge to remember such moments so that we can focus on helping ourselves and others on how to master how to earn a living while doing something suited to our natural talents and inclinations.


Two possibilities ought to be considered one is longer term planning, where one goes to school and another is entrepreneur path. This path is generally guided by QQS, small high quality with good sprit. I have therefore adopted this method.

I shall increasingly create work procedures and then hold themselves on me, after all what we need is habituation of good quality work ethics, and then so our work on continual basis.

Stretch your utmost efforts

You are able to find plenty of dates, and even plenty of money, if you do whatever your work is as planned or as is improvised, with perseverance, not quitting when it most tough, because that happens to be when the deal is about to be sealed. It is the darkest when the down is about to shine.


Every time, you do this, you get stronger and probably you will get you need and want.

Take exercise as an example; you are healthy an you have consulted wit a doctor about particular exercise regimen.

Now, every time, you exercise to the maximum ability of yours, experts tell us your capacity to do more increases. Reverse, it is probable, may be true, every time you don't push yourself hard enough, short of harming your self, you decrease your capacity to do that task. It is sort of use it or lose it thing.

Confidence comes from here largely the more you exert yourself to get work done, the more you are able to do more.

It is this confidence that will allow find you find a date of your choice and enjoy it, and even more money and resources to contribute to your favorite causes. It is all about exertion or work Physics tells us that potential energy, energy that you can do something with, originates from work done. Get work done and get plenty of energy, the hard currency of the universe to get many of what you need or desire.

Practice practice makes you, people say perfect, that is right.

I noted if you can daily practice small session, you can make over the longer run huge development.

In this sprit, I will set up small sessions like one sentence sessions, and dailly promise $100, if don't do it.

This sessions will allow me to make huge profess in many areas of life.It may do the same for you too.

Now you can, and please do, speak about what is relevant to the occasion, and leave the rest alone. If you have nothing to say or do, then so say and do noting.

This is what is called efficiency, doing what is necessary to get work done and no more.

The reason why you will promise $100 is that start up or set up is most difficult.

Stopping is also difficult, that is why you let this happen: just continue once you get started as long as you can continue.

If course this generates the question of getting work done for weeks, since all that was wanted was a sentence, now since there is nothing to stop you from doing more work, you may do the work of weeks.

It does not matter how long you do, the next day you have to do the one sentence, and then you will do more work.

This generate the question of editing the work done. Now, you offer another $100 in editing yesterday's work, before starting another sentence. And then $100 on starting is also there, five days a week. In this way more work is done and edited.

We adopt this system. I shall try as much as possible to state that daily, that the money is available for pick up, if I don't do the work.

So that may take the job of monitoring my work, learn an collect some money if I don't do as promised.

Ever Present Nature of Trails.

We face at every moment two exactly opposing choices, one easier at the beginning but difficulty later and the reverse path; as it turns out this is an ever present phenomena, making persistence a desirable trait.

This will be a good news for those who tried but some how did not succeed. In fact it is quite a common experience, and its solution has been stated, simple learn from it and try it again.

Every moment is new, making over thinking about failure an exercise in futility.

Success in finding a suitable work and partner and even building a profitable business have something in common: location. Frequent places where you are more likely to strike such deals preferably on daily basis, if not do so in the Internet.

Some people are not able to do neither if them. The solution to this is set up a time and money, to be given right away, carry with you some cash to give, if you are unable to honor your commitment.

Give the money for real if you are unable to reasonably do what you have said you will do.

This leads us to the question of daily and weekly planning. I have never known more decisive factor in one's life than that of pre-planning and subsequently doing as planned.

Some were so amazed by the effect of this phenomenon, they have proclaimed this much: the aim of life is to engage in activities that imply forethought.

Once again I know how to do this? withdrew cash from your bank, if you have one, and then place it in a box, if you fail to plan, say within 4 hours a week and an hour a day, then give the money in the box to a charity of your choice or relatives in need.

If you don't do give the money to charity or relatives in a month, double it and then give it to others of your choice. To ensure you remember place a note in the box indicating the amount of money given and the date given.

If you have a friend, give the money to your friend right away so that he or she shall give the money to a target of your choice.

Isku Shaqee ama Dadka Kale u Shaqee

Adiga shaqayso, ama qof kale qof kale u shaqee. Waa adagtahay inaad isku shaqaysid, marka hore, laakiin gadaal dambe , waa ka fududahay, waxayna noqotaa arin la mahdiyo, maxmuud.

Labo maadaa kalifta inaad shaqadaada qabsatid: kow, inaad dhahdid, haddii aan qabsan waayo, intaas oo addunyo ah aan bixinaa. Haddii aan qabsadana, intaas aan helaa.

Shaqada waa labo, mid waa nooli, midna waa iska qabso, wax hel ama helin. Yoolka nolosha waa in tan dambe laga dhigo tan hore, iska qabso in laga helo nooli. Tanaa loola jeedaa dookhaaga shaqo ka dhigo. Runtii waxay arintaan sharixi kartaa horayumarka ay gaartay duni badan.

Tan waa inaad si joogta ah  u qabsataa, ee ma aha inay noqoto, wax maalina la suubsho, maalina la iska dhaafo, maalinlay waa inay noqotaa. Si ay caado kuugu noqoto. Runtii, markay caado kuu noqoto, aad xoroobaysaa.

Ogow waxaa tirsama qabatiin, wuxuuna dhacaa joogtayn ka bacdi. Si tan u dhacdana kharash bixi, haddaad howshaada qabsan waysid, haddii kalena waa abaal marin.

Aniga waxaan shaqo fiican  qabsadaa, markaaan si goos goos ah wax u naawilo; halista markaa waa inaan galo baabab kale, laakiin haddaan dhiifoonahay, waa ka dabaashaa inta badan

Waxaana ugu shaqo xumahay markaan si xiriir ah wax u naawilo, saacado badan; si xiriir ah in wax loo naawilo,  ogow, waa lidka goos gooska.

Goos gooska, ma aha in la magacdhabo, waayo waa wax iska cad, laakiin saanuu u dhacaa: bilow, jooji, haddana bilow, jooji, ilaa dhamaadka.

Marka waxaan qoraa markay bahasha igu soo dhacdo, bacdina gadaal dambe si buuxda u diiwaan galiyaa, wixii ugu soo dhacay, bacdi qormada waxay noqonaysaa goos goos la ururiyay.

Habka noocaan ah in wax loo naawilo waxay ka walax tahay talantaaliga dawaaliga ah. Marba waxaad  naawilaysaa, waxa meesha ku jira. 

Runtii nolosha waa labaalay; marka qofka wuxuu ka fikiraa siduu dalkiisa nabad iyo xor uga dhigi lahaa, marna bariis iyo nolol maalmeedka uu ka fikiraa, ama siduu u taakulayn lahaa qaraabadiisa iyo sekeeyaha guud ahaan. Howlahaan qofka markuu waajaho wuxuu noqonaa xayraan.Marka naawil talantaaliga, waa xal.

Si kale u dhig, labaalay wax u qabso, wixii kugu soo dhaca qoro, ama wadwad, waxaasoo fiican, fitrada Eebe dadka ku abuuray aa u kala sheegayso wixii fiican iyo wixii kale.

Wixii ku dhibana, dheh waa xaliyay, bacdina iswaydii sida maskaxdaada howlahaan ku xalisay, maskaxda marka waxay xoogga saaraysaa xalka, inta badan laakiin islamarkiiba jawaabta waa bixisaa, ayadoo ku xasuusinaysa arin la mid ah arintaan. Dadka inta badan arintaan ma dhacdo, ama ma gartaan.

Maskaxaha qaarkood waxay ku hadlaan xusuusinta arin la mid ah, kuwo kalena si kale.

Dadaa waxay ku leeyihiin waxaan faraha kula jirnaa arin aan ognahay inay noo fiicnayn, sida dawaafka shabakadaha bilaa yacni, ayadoo shaqo kale noo taalo, ama fawaakih kale oo xiiso badan la heli karo: ka kaca meesha

Runtii qacda hore oo la qabsado waxaad u qabtid inay fiicanyihiin waa asluub lagu eedeeyo inay ka masuul tahay horayukaca insaaniyada.

Dumarka tusaale ahaan, ragga sida fudud ku hela gabar ya ka helaan waxay dhahaan 3 mirir oo ugu horeeysa haddaad dhaqaaqi waysid, filimka waa dhamaaday, sidaasna waa lagu dhaqaa, ka hadalka waxa kugu soo dhaca qacda hore.

Yoolka nolosha waa in runta laga hadlo, laakiin looga hadlo si farsamaysan.

Waaga iyo hirkaba ninka ama marwada ma sugaan.

Lacag, nabad, xuriyo iyo waxyaabo kale oo farobadan helkooda iyo wayntooda waxay dhacdaa 3 mirir oo hore. Marka markaad ogaatid, inaad faraha kula jirtid, waxaan fiicnayn, isla markaas ka bax, bacdina dabaal dag.

Waxaas oo dhan waxaa kasii fiican inaad waqti qaadatid, bacdina waqtigaaga qorshaysid, bacdina qorshaha ku dhaqaaqdid. Marka ma jirto, sabab aad u wadwadid waxaadan rabin, caajis dartiis.

Every occasion it has its saying.

For every situation or station there is something that is relevant to it, I learn to say only that diplomatically. This explains largely my success in many situations. I leave the rest aside, unless they force themselves upon me, in which case I examine them rationally.

Three Seconds Rule and Inertia

Experts of relationships say move within the first three seconds of noting mutual attraction or its varieties.

It turns out this is an excellent tool for remaining generally proactive, that is acting right away when you know this or that is proper thing to do.

The most difficult moment is when you are about to make it, remain patient.

We will discuss about specific effects. You noted a mutual attraction, what do you do?

This will allow me to focus, not dabble.

Satiation effect of physical and non physical exercises, such as meditation is real to me, at least.

There is less desire to browse sites and engage in nonsense activities and generally activities you know are not sort of things you want to do.

Walking long distance has also similar effect.

This is also an instance of Pareto's law: figuring out what avails what you need or want and then doing it.

How does this helps you find a date? You will have a professional feel, someone who is on top of his or her world, confident, and that is an attractive quality to many.

You can then use your new found confidence to speak your mind gently and have plenty of choices.

Nutrition

If you are hungry-by the way the brain consumes more energy than the rest of the body, when it is working than otherwise as research shows-then you are like a car which runs out of fuel. Naturally, you will not be able to work, or move for that matter.

So, eat a balanced food, consisting of whole grains, fruits, vegetables, legumes, dairy products, or preferably their substitutes, fake meat, some sweets and plenty of water.

For a long time, I was not able to get this simple fact and I felt sleepy and general tiredness. I have resolved this matter.

When you speak your mind gently, others will do the same. Truth is sweet, so sweet it is addictive, but at the beginning it is bitter enough to be repulsive, so repulsive some people are inclined to avoid it.

Xeerka 3da Mirir iyo Wahsiga

Dadka udurusa shukaansiga waxay dhahaan shukaansiga bilow 3da mirir ee ugu horeeya, haddii kale filinka waa dhammaaday.

Dadka guud ahaan caajiska aduunyo badan kala tagay, waxaa lagu waaninaa inay xeerkaan meelo badan u isticmaalaan, si  ay caajiska uga adkaadaan.

Wax walba oo la qabto waxay ugu adagtyihiin marka la dhamayn rabo iyo marka la bilaabi rabo, marka tan maanka ku hay, maalin walba.

Dadk meel sare nolosha ka gaaray waxay dhahaan waxaa noo sahlay, arintaan qayb ahaan, diirad saaridda ama tuuntuunsiga. 

Marka si tan aad u suubisid, dooro waxaad rabtid inaad heshid ama soo saartid, bacdina shaqo ka dhigo sidii tan loo soo saari lahaa. Tan waxay kuu sahlaysaa inaad meel diiradda saartid.

Anaga tan waxaa noo ah sidaad caawa ku heli lahayd qof dumar ah oo kaa heshay, adna aad ka heshay, bacdina aad bilowdeen qorshe mudada fog ah.

Markaad jimicsatid, orodid, tusaale ahaan, waxaa dhacaysa inay kaa yaraato rabitaanka aad u qabtid inaad shabakadaha iska dawaaftid ama maalaa yacni iska wadwadid. Safar xagga lugta ah oo dheer oo lagalana waa sidaas.

Marka tan waxay kuu sahlaysaa inaad qabsatid waxyaalaha kuu sahlaaya inaad heshid waxaad rabtid.

Arintan marka waxay ku siinaysaa kalsooni, aad dumar farobadan ku heli kartid, sababtana waxaa waaye kalsoonidaada.

Raashinka

Isku day inaad cuntid, haddaad heli kartid, raashin dheeli tirin oo ka kooban, badar, waa kan ugu badan, bacdina waxaa ku xiga khudaar iyo miro, bacdina waxaa ku soo xiga digir iyo waxyaalaha laga helo xayawaanka, sida caanaha iwm; bacdina waxaa ugu dambeeya macmacaanak, biyo badanna cab.

Shaqadaada Qabso, Jacba Halagu Dhajiyo ama Wax ka Daran.

Marar waxaa jira ay kuu fududahay inaad qormooyin badan oo tayo leh  suubisid.Markaan suubso.

Saas oo  kale marar waxaa jira ay kuu sahlantahay inaad lacag badan tacbatid, tacbo markaan.

Saas oo kale, waxaa jira marar aad haysatid fursad dalkaaga aad nabad iyo xor uga dhigi kartid, markaan ka dhig. Waqtiga waa ma huraan, marka yuu ku dhaafin. Hirka iyo waagaba dadka ma sugaan.

Culumada Sayniska waxay dhahaan hirka iyo waaga labo ma kala aha: waaga waxaa lagu cabiraa hirka, laakiin taas ma aha mowduuceena caawa.

Maray maanta kaga dhowdahay in dalka xor iyo nabad laga dhigo iima muuqato, marka Dowladda Soomaaliya hala taageero sidii dalka nabad iyo xor looga dhigi lahaa, maamulka jirana uu u noqon lahaa mid doorasho ku yimaada kuna taga, sida haddaba ka jirta meeshuu ka yimid Axmed Godane, Hargaysa.

Ama haddii aadan waqti hayn, ururso, bacdina gadaal ka qoro. Saas oo kale, haddii aadan awoodin hadda inaad dowr facaal ah ka ciyaartid  arimaha Soomaaliya, gadaal dhigo, laakiin ha daahin, fursad wayn aa jirta, loo looga takhalusi karo xoogga raba dalkaan inay kaligii talisnimo ku celiyaan ayagoo ku gabanaaya shareecada Islaamka.

Dumarkana waa sidaas, mar waxaa jira ay ku rabaan adna aad rabtid, daaqadaan waa xirantaa, marka intay xirmin ka hor, meel wax isla dhiga; xeerkaan waxaa la dhahaa xeerka ukinta birta, intay kulu shahay qaabee.

Dadaa waxaa jira markay fursad haystaan, dhagax  noqda suran, xalka ma adka; gabar walba oo ka soo hor baxda maalin walba salaan, bacdina iskala kaftan, adoo ka kaftamaaya runta; qof furfuran noqo; bacdi waa kuu fududaanee inaad la hadashid midaad ka heshay, ayadana kaa heshay. 

Dadka qaarkiis waxay dhahaan war ka warama haddii si xun la iila hadlo, ama jac la igu dhajiyo, ama ay igu dhacdo wax ka sii daran; tan waa qiimaha aad ku bixinaysid si aad u heshid mid kaa heshay, adna aad ka heshay.

Wixii dhacaaya ha dhaceen, shaqadaada ma aha, waxa meesha ku jira sheeg, bacdina ka soco. Waxoogaa iska naso, bacdina meesha ka bilow. Dadka udurusa shukaansiga waxay dhahaan kan waa furaha dumarka.

Runtii waa furaha nolosha; adiga shaqadaada qabso, kana soco, u naso, bacdina ku celi, ilaa aakhirka. Haddii qof walba saas sameeyo, dalka Soomaaliya wuxuu helay nabad iyo xuriyo.

 

On the art of Writing and Work in General

On the art of writing
There are times when it is easy for you to write more quality work, pages, write these times and not other times.

Also collect ideas you want to write and then write them.

Edit those and research them and so on.

This generally happens when one is after clear effect to produce and does what it takes to produce that effect.

So, timing, collection of research and inspiration, courage to to talk about what is is relevant in more mature fashion and clear objective to achieve are some of the elements of producing great quality written work.

One element of timing is to write what you want to write when you want to write, but alway have a clear end, so that you know when to end writing or generally when to stop working.

Timing entails sometimes taking a break from writing.


Having placed premium on clear objectives, what are our objectives on this site: to give you a method you can use to generate $50 a day, minimum, to find a partner, and to find more effective ways to contribute to your favorite causes.

This limits what we can talk about. Immediately this reminds me to use a google offered program that allows me to promote a product by writing about it.

Perhaps I can sell that product to make money. In fact it is a product that I wanted to sell it anyway.

I shall come up with a plan that can also be transferred to other vocations, so that that you may benefit from It.

Productivity

Productivity to a writer can be measured to the extent the author is able to collect notes and put them together in such fashion as to allow him or her to earn living as result of publishing the collected notes.

The collected notes could be research notes, citations or inspirations

Continuity
One of the most beautiful stories to tell is to assume that you have lived different life forms, beginning from being very simple life form and then taking a long journey to become who you are now, and also imagine the possibility of becoming even more.
This is what science tells us, modern life being a product of bygone live forms.

Personality and Courting

When I am not interested to seduce women, they want to seduce me.

I always thought this applies to women whom we are not compatible, particularly, women who are more of sensing types, in Myers Briggs type indicator, less of intuitive types.

Their approach always has element of pretensions or reluctance to do this, and this is the seeds of future break up. Since it will not work, I say to myself, why try it.


But this may be analogous to waking up for a work, a friend of mine tells me, you don't want to do it, but you need to earn a living and you know it is good for you, in the longer run.

This is also related to general tendency of sensing types to creep, and afterwards, when they recognize what they are doing, that is when their rational mind comes back to work, they say what in the world am I doing? But then a conversation ensues wherein the matter is settled amicably.

To court such women when has to withstand both waves, the initial somewhat unconscious wave, resulting from the tendency of the male not to pursue the female, this cannot be faked, it has to be genuine, and the ensuing realization of what am I doing? By remaining calm and rational in both cases, when can easily get plenty of dates.

We ought to remember this is analogous to when a man wants a woman but the woman does not. The roles are reversed.

When can produce such effect, females pursuing the males, by working on projects in public places, like coffee houses, in an absorbed manner, so that your entire system says I am not interested to pick up a woman now, but interested to get work done, the more this work is something you really to do, the better, even if it is a hobby you are working on, not only for its own sake, but also for the sake of earning living out of it, in the nearer future, or even in the longer run.

The ideas is to absorb your attention on a work that has the potentiality to satisfy you both materially and spiritually.

You may have a job that allows you to earn a living, but you want to do a work that gives you positive energy. If your current jobgives you positive energy, then you don't need to find a hobby and turn it into a career.

You also produce such effects when you are sexually potent but not interested in such activities, like Monday morning, females at this time play the role of a typical male on late Saturday evening.

As far as more intuitive and sensing types, is concerned conversation is not smooth as it is between people of same type; this may incline both of them, at different times that the relationship may not work and hence no need to build it. This, however, is empirical question, not a theoretical one.

After they learn each other, they may make pertinent conclusion about The viability of the relationship.

There is some empirical evidence to suggest the relationship between some intuitive and sensing types is one of the most satisfying relationship, presented by Myers Briggs in her book, gifts differing, even though the relationship is less promising initially.

But you may be inclined to think this will not work again and again. The solution to this is to assume it worked, and ask her to tell you how it worked. Also join this process to brainstorm solutions. As In life, you are bound to find solutions.


Steps
1- Talk about what is relevant, this may be the most embarrassing thing to do, but it will be the most memorable thing to do, the story that she was telling to her friend, about meeting a stranger and hugging and saying nice to meet you, a lot of women say this to each other while you are sitting around; say you are talking about me right, if that seemed to be the case with you. The point is to talk about what is most relevant to your mind at the time.

Some say opinion approach, ask open ended question, first, and then gradually move to more pertinent questions. I think that is mistaken. To talk about what is relevant in step by step manner, and generally remain indifferent to the outcomes, while remaining generally kind, will have favorable first impression impact. Besides that is how human brain works, to comment on what is up, regardless of how we feel as a result of this revelation.

This will also reveal how deeply we are related as human beings. I think one ought to not miss this opportunity; I favor those those who say be truthful but kind, or cocky funny, CF.

2-Practice speaking to women, so that that how you speak to an attractive woman ought to not be significantly different from how you speak to other women. This ought to be a daily practice. Update. I have never thought this will be life changing event, to a friend of mine it was. He just spoke to as many women as possible, not just talking to them, but only talking to them when he has something to say and remaining silent when he has nothing to say. This works perfectly when both of you are sitting next to each other in the bus or waiting the train or the bus and so on . It is even better if you are in party where people hang together and then disperse and then hang with others and then disperse and so on. Under these circumstances, don't pretend or anything just speak of your mind gently and whatever that is going on, focusing where there is mutual attractions, and when you are run out of what talk about about, move on, after asking contacts and good time to call, I course if things work between you and. another woman, it is time to date and move on to more private setting. The main point to remember is that you have to be clear what you want, and then let the mind tell you what to do and then do it, of course while you are diplomatic about it. Use your brain.
A- the point is to talk to women who wan to talk to you as natural as possible, because with these women the question is not mutual attraction, there is attraction, a potential one, of course, the question is how to make that potentiality a reality. To make sure this happens both brains ought to work unimpeded, they will do wondrous. That is why you have to be honest, when you have nothing to say, just say nothing, and do what you think you ought to do, may be get some fresh air. We discussed earlier how the brain moves from one thought to another by moving the body. Besides don't hang on a particular line of story when you run out of it, because it prevents more interesting one to arise. So that there is dynamic aspect to the conversation. It has never boring.

There is something new coming you every now and then. It will require some courage to move into different levels, because doing so initially is uncomfortable, but soon you will feel comfortable, and that is what it is all about, moving to more and more closeness and understanding.

B- The main point to remember is to start and keep the momentum so that they you will overcome the initial inertia that inclines you to do nothing.

3- Frequent places where you are more likely to meet women who are as eager as you are to meet them, ideally on daily basis or weekly basis. The more you frequent these places, the better the chances.

Ku Jimicso Samanta Waxaad Ogtahay inay Fiicanyihiin.

Subax walba markuu qofka soo kaco waa waa cusub, wata imtixaanadiisa iyo abaalmarintiisa. Marka u diyaargarow.

Wax wabla oo fican marka hore ma fudada, bacdi inaad isku qasabtid waaye marka hore, haddii aad samayn waysid, bacdi waxay noqonee wado furantay. Islamarkaasna waxaa sii adkaanaaya inaad suubisid wixii fiicnaa.

Taas lidkeedna waa jirtaa. Marka hore, hadaad qabsatid waxaad ogtahay inay fiicanyihiin in la qabsado, waxaa kuu fududaanaaya inaad wax kale oo badan qabsatid, bacdina wixii aan fiicnayn, sida maala yacniga aa kugu adkaanaaya inaad qabsatid.

Ilaa marka dambe waxa fiican ay doolshe kuu noqdaan, waxa aan fiicnayna ay bir kugu noqdaan.

Marka mirir walba waa doorasho, ama kor aad u socotaa, ama hoos, janno ama jahanamo, adaa doorasho leh.

Tusaale Shukaansiga
Markaad subaxdii soo kacdid, haddaad aragtid, gabar aad iska hesheen, bacdna aad dhahdid, war qofyahay waa iska helnay, marka hadda aan israacno ama marka kale, sida adiga waqtiga kugu yahay.

Hadaad saan suubisid, waxaa kuu fududaanayso inaad dumar badan shukaamisid ilaa aad ka heshid mid adigana aad rabtid ayadana ku rabto.

Laakiin haddii midda hore aad la hadlin, adoo og inaad israbtiin, bacdi waxaa fududaanaysa inaad  la hadlin dumar aad ogtahay inaad israbtiin oo tiro badan.

Bacdina meeshaas waxaad ku waynaysaa fursado badan.

Lacag tacbashadana iyo meel ka gaarista siyaaasadana waa sidaas, si dalka u helo nabad iyo xuriyo jiilal badan ku naaloodaan, loogana takhaluso kuwa raba inay dalkaan xoog ku qabsadaan bacdina say rabaan ka yeelaan, waa in la qabsadaa wax marka hore adag, laakiin gadaal dambe ka fudud, la iskana dhaafaa waxa marka hore fudud, laakiin gadaal dambe ka adkaada.

 

Being Proactive is Daily Exercise.

Taking initiatives to makes things you want happen is not initially easy, initially at least, but it is not easy to remain inactive either.

The danger here is that the more one is inactive, the more one gets inclined to remain inactive, so that is becomes harder to become proactive.

The reverse, of course is true, so that the more one becomes proactive, the more one wants to be so.

As usual one initially must motivate himself  or herslef to overcome inertia.

You know when good ideas are about to come to you, just note them and organize them in such a fashion as to allow you to make living out of them. The same applies to other endeavors.

In some cases, however, I noted,  I refuse to acknowledge great ideas despite their persistence to be noted.

Afterwards, I remember they were great ideas, but by this time I cannot recall them with clarity, they are basically gone,  for now at least.

Since my whole job is to note great notes, I shall exercise noting worthy ideas, no matter what I am doing, so that it will become my habit to do so.

A collection of great notes is my work, and subsequent organization of these to earn a living.

Habituation of dual tasking

Very often we are not aware this is an instance of this general idea. This is the difference between universal and particular.

I know dual tasking as in an excellent way to get work done, but I did not remember it in the las few days when I was doing some work.

Dual tasking works because every two thoughts a bodily movement must come in between them, otherwise you will remain in the same thought; there is not freshness; that is why some people say you can stop new thoughts by remaining still.

Try also to move when you are talking to allow more thoughts in .

Body movements and tone are sign posts of communications; follow them with caution.

Ideas come In droves when one identifies what he or she wants and then does something else, such as learning how to use your cellphone or cleaning your place and so on.

Females, I also noticed, are attracted by this, when one focuses his lifetime work in view of making money out of it, in a way that absorbs his entire attention, they are fascinated.

The longer this goes on, the more attractive he becomes, partly because I think of his increased confidence.

Inta badan kama warqabno in waxaan ay qayb ka yihiin wax guud oon aaminsanahay.

Tusaele ahaan waxaan ogaa sidaan: labo shaqo qabshada waxay ii sahashaa inaan shaqo fiican qabsado.

Laakiin tan ma ogayn markaan shaqada u fariistay.

Labo fikir waxaa dhexyaala dhaqdhaqaaq jir, marka hadday saas tahay, fikiro cusub haddaad rabtid, fikir bacdina dhaqaaq, haddana fikir bacdina dhaqaaq, ilaa dhamaadka.

Aristotal tanuu ogaaday, bacdi waa khudbayn jiray, bacdina waa socon jiray, bacdina waa khudbayn jiray, bacdina waa socon jiray. Marka asaga iyo xirtiisa waxaa la dhihi jiray socoto.

Marka haddaad rabtid sheeko fiican, lugee. Runtii, nin fakira wuxuu dhahay labo dakhtar aan qabaa: labadayda lugood. Dadaa meharad ka dhigtay socodka iyo wax la isku daaweeyo.

Ma rabtaa dumarka inay ku shukaansadaan? Raadso dookh aad jeceshahy, ama shaqo guud ahaan, bacdina si fiican u qabso adoo u shaqaynaaya inaad lacag ka heshid. Dookh iyo shaqo, labadaan oo la isku laray waa birlabka dumarka.

Maqaayadaha fariiso bacdina howshaan qabso, dumarka waxay ku leeyihiin I guurso, waa wax la ogaaday, lacagtna waa sidaas, bacdina dheh lacagta keena, een waxaana qaata.

Waxaan aad qabsatay bacdi waxaad u isticmaali kartaa inaad u qaaraantid qadiyadaha aad ka heshid, adigoo ka dhaansanaaya.

Time your Work and Breaks.

One of big consumers of time is unscheduled breaks and works in general. Among the big savers of time is timing the time needed to get work done.

Another time saver is focusing on essentials and leaving unnecessary elements alone. If one practices these two in tandem, then one will save big time.

Mastering this art is like mastering musical instruments; it takes time and many trials, so be patient and keep trying your best by stretching your utmost power.

Planning ahead and implementing is like the previous art; it too takes time and many trails to master.

Try again and again until you master it, while having mechanisms of rewards and loss in place, in case you don’t do your work.

What allows us to succeed or not succeed is habit, sort of things we do repeatedly.

Action implies something; some thinkers think the aim of life is to engage in activities that imply forethought.

So, it is better to decide what effects you wish to produce; having decided this, engage in activities that causes or is likely to cause such effects.

It is not difficult to decide which effects you desire most deeply, and which ones you don’t.