Writing when you want to write

Warm room is conducive to good night sleep. When, however, the room is not warm, I noted, one does not get enough rest, presumably, the body is awake warming itself, rather than sleeping.

One might not know such is the case and therefore wake up tired.


Or even if one knows, one may lack the motivation needed to wake up and turn on the heat to warm the room.

If so, if one notices the need to turn the heat on, one ought to wake up right away and turn on the heat to warm the room.

One ought to not wait for too long to warm the room.

Time difference between awareness and action ought to not exceed 3 seconds.

You can tell how proactive you are, and by implication how successful you are in life, by measuring the time difference between your realization that the room needs to be warmed and warming it.

The less time, the more successful you are.

Steven Covey says in his book, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, the difference between people who are proactive and people who are not is 5,000%.

In other words, if one makes $1an hour, the other makes $5,000 an hour.

Evidently, this will allow you to sleep well and wake up next day well rested and ready to work more productively.

Writing when you want to write is the best way to write because you will write more coherent work and the writing is more lively and fresh.

Moreover, It takes less time to write if you write when you want to write.

This is part of a larger phenomena known as shaping the iron when it is hot or generally doing what is appropriate to the moment and of course not doing what is not, for this is more difficult to do and causes unnecessary struggle, in addition to producing less quality work.

It is for this reason, I think, the best work is collection of notes written when one is inclined to write.

If so, I have adopted this method of writing as my modus operandi of writing.

Small voice tells me to write now, despite me having some objections to it; if I coalesce, things work for the better.

I write my best writing, and generally do a better work, when I am fully rested, that is when I am not tired.

So, once again I will make this a priority: rest well to do a quality work.

One of your primary works in all relationships is tell the truth or what appears to be the truth. You may be tactical about it, or even friendly, moral or strategic, but the the primary task remains the same, that of the truth or what appears to be the truth. Any thing is bound to lead to disappointments.

One may be tempted to dodge inevitable disappointment, but he is bound to disappoint himself and others by virtue of his dodging attempts. It is ironic. He faces what he wanted to avoid. Had he known this, he would have done what is generally bitter, thereby having a chance to succeed, despite facing possible disappointment.

For this reason experts generally recommend indifference to the outcome but performance of what is relevant to the moment in kind way.

There is freshness to life when it comes to practicing this art. It is new every time.


Ironic situations are common in life. Take men and woman relationships; the very acts that man uses to tell woman that he desires, will make her not desire him. The solution is counter intuitive: to assume mutual desire or not and press for ways to make this mutual desire a reality. This will entail not taking her words at face value. If there is n mutual desire, this method will not work, and it is better for him to move on, at least for the time being, and find someone else while still has some time.

Ironically, this will make him more attractive, not less, if there is any chance of mutual desire.